My family of five – me, my husband, the two Bliss Kids, and Bliss Dog – love traveling. They are the best traveling companions a mom with wanderlust could ever hope for.
When I was a kid, my family used to go on a lot of road trips. We frequently drove up to Tacoma, Washington or down to Stockton, California to visit relatives. We drove to the coast, to the mountains, to the desert; we camped and stayed at relatives’ homes; we did Disneyland and the Redwoods and the Space Needle.
But this summer marks my own little family’s longest road trip to date: 11 days and 2,000+ miles through four states. It was an incredible adventure, and one that I know we’re looking forward to doing again in the future with new destinations and itineraries.
I’ll be sharing photos and travel tips from that road trip every Tuesday over the next three months (yes, I have THAT many travel stories to share from this trip!). I thought I’d kick it off by sharing some tips that helped make our road trip a success. I would love for you to share additional tips in the comments below!
Tips for Family Road Trip Bliss
1. Involve all family members in vacation planning.
While this road trip was a little different because it was a press trip, and some of the itinerary was pre-planned for us, we still had a lot of decisions to make regarding where to go and what to do. When possible, giving kids ownership of decisions such as where to eat or the order of places to go, helps them feel more invested in the trip and less likely to protest the itinerary. Some ideas:
- If your itinerary is flexible, show the kids a map of your general travel plans and give them ownership of choosing one of three pre-determined (by you) side trip options. For example, if you’re heading to Vancouver, BC Canada from Portland, Oregon, maybe they can choose whether to stop for lunch or afternoon snack/shopping/pit stop in Centralia, WA, in Tacoma, WA, or in Bellingham, WA.
- Show kids websites of restaurants at your destination that you think the whole family would enjoy, and have them choose their favorite to visit for the first night.
- If you have a free morning to lounge at the hotel, allow the kids to choose the activity: go swimming, go for a walk around hotel grounds, get family chair massages, etc.
- If you are camping, or even if you’re traveling anywhere with outdoor adventure options, let the kids choose a hiking trail or biking trail for the family to explore one afternoon.
2. Double check your emergency car kit ahead of time
It’s a good idea to have an emergency car kit in your trunk at all times, but about a month before your road trip, be sure to check your kit. Do you need to purchase any new supplies or update old ones? Some good basics to have in your car kit are:
- Jumper cables
- Duck tape
- Work gloves
- Tow rope
- Cat litter (for traction!)
- Ice scraper
3. Take care of vehicle maintenance a few weeks beforehand
The last thing you want to worry about while you’re on the road is your vehicle. A couple of months before our road trip, we discovered the air conditioning wasn’t working properly. Luckily we discovered this before we hit the road and drove into 90-107-degree temperatures throughout our trip! Before our trip, I took our car in to have the air conditioning fixed, but also for a full oil change. Make sure you have your tires checked at this time, too!
4. Plan your on-the-road food & drink
If you can’t tell by reading my blog, food is pretty darn important to me and my family. I’m going to guess it’s a big deal to you and your family too when you travel. A month before the trip, make a list of all of the food and drinks you want to take on the road with you. If you’re camping, this list will obviously take on a different spin than if you are road tripping and staying in hotels, as we did. When you have looooong stretches of road, snacks are vital — for kiddos and parents alike! You will also save money by planning ahead instead of buying expensive and unhealthy snacks at the one and only gas station in that tiny town. Plan for a cooler in the car (someplace within arms’ reach!) packed with water and healthy fruit for the first part of your trip, and then include non-perishable healthy snacks (homemade or store bought granola bars, cereal, dried fruits and dehydrated meats) that will stand up to heat and also last for the duration of your road trip.
5. Organize your packing as much as you can ahead of time
Packing up a family for any trip can be a full-time job, but packing for a road trip takes extra organization.
Plan ahead where you will pack items strategically in your vehicle, such as:
- extra clothing for each family member (in case of emergency)
- maps, pens, pencils, tape, Sharpie pens, mints (trust me on needing the last two — I always keep both in my car!)
- car games (cards, activity packets)
- electronics & chargers
- safety & health kit (sunscreen, insect repellent, bandages, Neosporin, allergy meds, etc)
- food & drinks
- comfort items for the kids such as their stuffed animals, favorite pillows, blankets
Also plan as much of your clothing and toiletries in advance as possible, which will help you avoid overpacking at the last minute. I’ve designed the Road Trip Packing Checklist pictured below for our own road trip, and thought some of you might like to use it as well.
Click here to download the Urban Bliss Road Trip Packing Checklist.
6. Give the kids activity packs focused on your journey & destination(s)
I make vacation packets for my kids each time we go on big trips. The ones pictured above are the ones I made for our road trip. They contain activities such as:
- Word searches containing words related to our vacation destinations
- State or country coloring pages
- Crossword puzzles containing words related to our vacation destinations
- Maps so they can follow our journey
- Journal entry sheets
- Fill-in-the-blank sheets asking questions about the vacation (example: “My favorite place to visit was _____ because ____”).
I keep thinking that one day I will make a bunch of these for popular vacation destinations and sell them on my printables site . . . not sure if that’s something people would be interested in, but it’s one of 2473 ideas I keep meaning to implement ;)
7. Prep your tech
As much as I love old school paper and pen activities and those crazy old things called “books,” we’re also very much a digital family, and the longer the road trip, the more I am okay with my kids using technology. Before the trip, load up your car with DVDs and a portable DVD player if your car doesn’t come with one. We visited our local library a few days before our trip, armed with a long list of movies that the kids wanted to check out. Also make sure you have adequate chargers for all of your technology. I keep our chargers in a ziploc bag, and use washi tape to wrap around each cord and label which tech toy the cord belongs to — makes finding the right cords for each device SO much easier for everyone.
8. Map out pit stops along the way.
Especially if you’re headed out on a very long road trip, or through land you’re unfamiliar with, it helps to plan out those all-important pit stops ahead of time. Let’s face it: there are some rest areas and gas stations that are more family-friendly than others — especially if you are traveling with babies and toddlers, or if you are traveling while pregnant. Search the web to map out family-friendly pit stops along the way. Your kids can even mark them on their maps to help navigate! I don’t know about you, but my kids love being “in charge” of things; give them an important responsibility during a road trip, and they will take it with pride!
9. Encourage your family to look up and out
The sky is so different over Oregon than it is over Idaho or Montana or Massachusetts. Make sure that you and your kids don’t miss that magic. Part of the beauty of a road trip lies right outside your car windows, and while it’s tempting to sleep or read the time away, or get lost in movie after movie, be sure to periodically and pointedly mention the scenery, landmarks, unique or random road sightings.
10. Plan, plan, plan — and then let go and go with the flow
This is pretty much my life philosophy, and it works well for every family trip as well. Jam-packing a road trip itinerary, much like over-scheduling in life, is a recipe for disaster. Build in extra time for those unexpected pit stops, for traffic, or even just for those GOOD side trips. Have realistic expectations. If an opportunity comes up unexpectedly that makes your family’s eyes light up with possibility, for the love of all things bacon and chocolate, TAKE IT! Go the long route because you’ve heard it’s more beautiful, stop when everyone’s tired and recharge, and accept the things you can’t change. I’ve had plenty of crazy family travel stories (did you read the one about what we now lovingly call Diarrhea tunnel? GREAT memories! No sarcasm – for real!), and every moment during a family trip gives it its well deserved place in your family’s history.
I hope you found this list helpful. I’m certain at least 100 more tips could be added but then you’d spend way too much time planning for your trip instead of going on it ;)
Go forth and find your family road trip bliss, fellow travelers! I’d love to hear your road trip tips & stories in the comments!
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